EighteenHands Rule Book

I created EighteenHands to provide a safe and fun place for plus size riders to talk, share, shop, swap, and have a bucking good time. At EighteenHands it is of the utmost importance that a safe and friendly environment is maintained. Please read and follow the rules below before enjoying all EighteenHands has to offer. These rules are also applicable to the EighteenHands facebook  fan page, YouTube Channel, and anywhere else EighteenHands.

  1.  “Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.”- Be respectful and courteous to all members at all times.
  2.  Absolutely NO posting of malicious or hurtful comments under ANY circumstances.- It is not up to you as members to police, judge, or criticize any other member. A heated tack choice debate or breed preference and what not is totally acceptable, but if you don’t like a picture you see or feel the need to judge someone without their direct permission, MOVE ON and stop looking at it.  If such comments occur, they are to be report to me at 18handsstore@gmail.com  IMMEDIATELY.
  3. Any member who chooses to direct hurtful or inappropriate comments at another member will be removed and blocked from all EighteenHands resources immediately- This is self explainatory. If you are a jerk, you can leave.

At EighteenHands I work very hard to put as many plus size relevant resources as possible at your fingertips. My goal is to try to make your life as a plus size rider easier. Doing so takes a lot of time, thorough research, and effort to bring information to you.

       4.  No posting of items for sale without permission.- Please contact me at 18handsstore@gmail.com to discuss listing your items for sale.  Any items posted for sale without permission will be promptly removed

 

If any member at any time feels they are victim of Internet harassment on this site or the facebook fan page,  please contact me at 18handsstore@gmail.com IMMEDIATELY. It is difficult for me to police every post and picture, so I ask that you are responsible and diligent in helping me keep EighteenHands a safe and friendly place to be.

xoxo

~Lizzy


EighteenHands Day

Saturday February 23, 2013 from 4-6:30pm at Equine Essentials Tack Shop in Oxford, MA.

Please join me for EighteenHands’ first ever public outing!

-vendor trunk shows
-Plus Size clothing showcase
-clothing try-on opportunities
-raffles
-giveaways
-light refreshments
AND MORE…

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Enter For A Chance to Win

Have you checked out Horseloverz.com yet? The world’s largest online tack shop has everything and more for both horse and rider. With great prices and an amazing selection, you’re sure to find it at Horseloverz.com!

 

Win A FREE $25 Gift Certificate To

HorseLoverz.com

To enter, tell us how EighteenHands has helped you excel in equestrian sports!  ’Like’ us on Facebook, share your story on our wall, and that’s it! Simple as that!

4 lucky participants will be chosen at random to win $5 off thier next purchase of $25 or more

1 lucky participant will be chosen at random to win a $25 gift certificate!

Winners will be announced August 1, 2012

So…How has EighteenHands helped you?

XOXO

Lizzy

 

 


JUST FLY Designs

When it comes to Western wear, many of you complain that plus sizes are EXTREMELY limited. Plus size Western Wear seems to be limited to drab or pastel shades with tacky designs that leave something to be desired. I’ve been searching high and low for some stylish thread for you guys and gals and I have found it!

Just Fly Designs

Just Fly Designs is a custom Western apparel company who is well know for ability to “bling-ify” AMAZING Western wear! From Rodeo to Horsemanship, Showmanship, and everything in between, These garments are sure to make you stand out i a crowd (in a good way). Just fly is currently able to produce garments in up to a 3X, and after talking with Faith, the owner and founder of Just Fly, I have been informed that they are able to go bigger, and are HAPPY to find EighteenHands girls and guys sizes we need!!! YAY!!!!!!

I STRONGLY encourage you to check out their website, and Facebook page. If you have any question about Just Fly’s products, they have great customer service and are more than happy to help you.


What is Natural Horsemanship?

Last weekend, Lauren took her 4 year old German Warmblood, “Capone” to a local trainer who practices “Natural Horsemanship” in hopes of finding a gentle but effective way of training and backing him. Her previous trainer,while extremely knowledgeable, had a traditional ”punishment and reward” approach to training and “breaking” horses and those methods seemed ineffective on Capone.

I’ve always heard of Natural Horsemanship but I never had any first hand experience with it. To me it was this horse-whispery magical and mystical sorcery that allowed those who wielded it’s power to communicate with horses as if they were a horse themsevles. I didn’t understand it, but it was a cool concept.

The definition of Natural Horsemanship is:

Colloquially known as horse whispering is a collective term for a variety of horse training techniques which have seen rapid growth in popularity since the 1980s. The techniques vary in their precise tenets but generally share principles of developing a rapport with horses, using communication techniques derived from observation of free-roaming horses and rejecting abusive training methods.

Natural horsemanship practitioners have created a exclusionary social meme marking the approach as being a radical departure from “traditional” techniques, which are often portrayed as being based in the use of unnecessary force. Users and practitioners tend to relate benefits in relation to the quasi-scientific narrative of the eitology of horse behaviour, and to the idea of anthropomorphic partnership. High profile practitioners of natural horsemanship such as Monty Roberts and Pat Parelli market their methods and equipment extensively through books, television appearances, live shows and other media. The combination of social demarcation and high-profile marketing makes the natural horsemanship movement somewhat controversial among the equestrian community, with criticism leveled at practitioners on a number of levels, notably that the techniques are not “new” and are classical concepts that are simply renamed or repackaged in order to be able to sell products and merchandise (Wikipedia)

…So in short, Natural Horsemanship utilizes a horses natural behaviors, and body language to create a strong bond between horse and owner. It takes advantage of a horses natural desire to follow and has been proved an extremely effective training method. Got it?

When Lauren told me she found a Natural Horsemanship trainer and that she had scheduled a training session for Capone I looked forward to joining her so I could see how it worked first hand. Let me tell you I was impressed! It was an extremely long session and it would take me FOREVER to review in detail. What I took home from the session was that you have to take your time and let the horse figure things out, vs the traditional method of force and domination.

Example:

Capone is extremely sensitive on the back end and his first impulse is to stomp or kick. He’s never kicked at a person, but when he is threatened by an object he is unfamiliar with (a plastic bag, a rope touching his legs, etc…) his response is to strike out on the back. So to begin the process of fixing this issue, the trainer, Pat Connors, put a loose lasso around Oni’s neck (rather than using a halter and longe line) then began longing him. Eventualy he maneuvered the rope so that it crossed between Oni’s back legs as he trotted. This caused Oni to FREAK OUT. He cantered, bucked, and kicked out in fear over and over again but all the while Pat’s body language stayed calm and steady. “If he gets tangled all I have to do is drop the rope and he will untangle himself.” Pat said to assured Lauren that her horse was perfectly safe. Oni FLEW around the round pen in fear of the “Horse eating rope” that was touching his back legs but after several mintutes he calmed down and transitioned into a trot…then eventually a walk…and eventually he stopped and looked at Pat as if to say “Okay I’m done freaking out now”.

While Oni’s issue wasn’t resolved, it was a step forward. “We just have do do excercises like this over and over again until he realizes that the objects aren’t going to hurt him.” Pat explained.

Let the horse sort it out for himself….I get it now. And I can’t wait to go back to watch the next session.

xoxo

lizzy

Check out the rest of the pictures on Facebook, and see video on YouTube!


I’ve got draft horses on the brain!!

Hey Guys and Gals,

If you follow EighteenHands on Facebook, most of you probably know that I rode a full draft for the first time on Saturday. I went out to Anglia Farm for my lesson, and rather than riding my usual mount, Shine the Haflinger, I was able to ride Paddy the Shire who had been out on lease for the winter. Paddy is over 17 hands and is the largest horse I had ever ridden. I was slightly nervous as I climbed the 3 step mounting block and pulled myself onto his back. Compared to the 15 hand horses I was used to riding, I was up HIGH and it was a long way down if I fell…Up I went and Ketherine and I started business as usual.

I don’t really know what I expected, never having ridden a full draft before, but I was very impressed at how forward Paddy was. “He’s not a lazy draft!” Katherine called to me from across the ring. “No, he certainly is not!!” I called back, quite enjoying myself. Another thing I noticed right away was the obvious length of his stride compared to the smaller horses I was used to as well as the feeling of his gait. Paddy’s movements felt as big as they were. We covered a lot of ground quickly and I had to familiarize myself with his rythm.

Over the course of my hour long lesson Paddy and I got to know each other very well. He responded to my aides, moved out under me and stayed collected for me for the entire ride. It was beautiful. Paddy and I walked, trotted, cantered, and even hopped my first cross rail together and I was able to stay connect with him better than I have with any other horse I’ve ridden (which isn’t very many). I’m not sure if I had such a good ride with Paddy because 1. My riding is improving so I am able to communicate with the horse better. 2. Paddy is an extremely willing and tolerant mount who puts up with anyone 3. I had an immediate connecting with Paddy that I haven’t experienced with any of the horses I’ve ridden or 4. A combination of all of these things.

I loved everything about this horse, and I cannot wait to ride him again. Do you own or ride a draft horse? Was your first experience on a draft “love at first ride”?

 

 

xoxo

~Lizzy


Fan Spotlight: Lisa-Marie and Claire

Hey, everyone!

Meet Lisa-Marie and her TB, “Claire”

My name is Lisa and this is Claire (Clearly A Southern Lady). She is a 16.3h un-raced TB who is about 8 years old. I have been riding for about 17 years and have always been the girl in the 18″ saddle! I primarily rode in hunter shows as a child an just recently started exploring other disciplines. That led to the purchase of Claire, I had been riding in the 15.2h range most my life and after starting sidesaddle lessons and then seeing photos of us I said “we have to upgrade!” I searched for a year for “the horse” and then met Claire, a rescue and now project horse who needed a home and who was way too big for the people who rescued her. Since then she’s come home, gotten fit and we are now ready to make our debut in Side Saddle and Eventing. We also compete in American Competitive Trail Horse Association Rides in Virginia. She is my best friend who is moody, prissy and a treat hound that loves a good head scratch. We’re excited to be part of the 18 hands community!

 

Glad to have you in the Big Girl Cowgirl Club, Lisa!!!

xoxo

~Lizzy


Fan Mail: Kaylyn Arms

Here’s another Big Girl Cowgirl who often gets “THE LOOK” for riding her ponies whilst being plus size. Kaylyn’s vet seems to think everything is OK, so she rides on winning lots of ribbons (no doubt to shove in the faces of those who would question her size)

Hello,
My name is Kaylyn Arms. When you first look at me you wouldn’t think it but I weigh over 200 pounds then when I say I jump horses you’d think I’m nuts! I have herd everything about how cruel I am to my lanky, 15.2 hand Morgan horse for being so heavy and asking him to fly over a 3 foot fence with my weight attached to his back. Until someone first mentioned it to me I never thought about my weight causing any harm to my horses because quite honestly they have always done wonderfully at home and in the show pen with me. If you go by the whole size/weight ratio I am too big for any of my three horses (two of them are 14 hand barrel ponies). When I mentioned it to my vet because I had grown so over aware of it I was riding less he laughed and said to keep riding its good for all involved. I have since shown and won in both jumpers and barrel pens and I’ve never stopped riding my short little horses. I get weird looks everywhere I go because I’m bigger and ofcourse to make matters worse I love obviously gody tack (my new mare’s tack is all rainbow except the saddle). The looks used to bother me until I realized it doesn’t matter as long as my horses and I are happy and having fun life is perfect and I shouldn’t change a thing. I’m in college now and I’m graduating in the summer with a degree in law enforcement. I’d like to see those skinny girls on their big tall horses go run 5 miles then go riding afterwards! My horses and my struggles as a large rider have taught me many things but the most important thing is this: I am not here to impress anyone but myself and as long as I impress myself and surprise myself with my abilities then nothing else but my horses matter.

Ride on Kaylyn!

xoxo

~Lizzy

 


Fan Mail: Katie Stamm

Hi Girls! I’m doing as I promised and I’m sharing your stories with everyone in the Cowgirl club. Here is an email I recieved from Katie Stamm. I totally feel her struggle with weight limits at lesson barns and public trail riding facilities and I can absolutely relate to her desire to own a horse to accomodate her size. How many of you are in the same boat?

Hi there!

I joined your group a couple of months ago.  It’s been a long time since I’ve had lessons, but know how to ride western & english.  Never got beyond being a confident beginner, and no show experience.  I was blessed to be a counselor at a Girl Scout camp that had a 20 stall horse barn so had access to free lessons.   After graduating from college, a friend and I would occaisionally “rent” horses from East Fork State Park (Ohio) and go out on trail on our own.

 In the meantime, I now own a house in a subdivision that has a Walking Horse Farm (Hidden Acres, Nashville, TN) less than a mile from my house.  They board!!  But I hesitate to ask about lessons because I am a 5’9″ 300 lb girl.  In 2001 I played professional women’s football at this size and was great at it.  I want to ride again So bad, but no one has a horse large enough to accomodate me.  I pray for the disposable income to be able to board a draft or a draft x that will be able to take a rider my size.

 I wanted to let you know that I got a DEALS email about a trail ride where the rider weight limit was 300 lbs.  That is EXTREMELY GREAT!!  I’ve attached the email for you to see.  Most of the places my husband and I look at are limit at 225 or 250.  That limits him, too, as he is 6’3 and 250. 

Thank you for all you do and if you are the praying type, pray I get enough disposable income to adopt a large horse.  I feel such a draw to drafts, ever since visitng the KY Horse Park at the age of 12 (in the late 70′s) and saw my first Shire.  I was in love forever.  What magnificent creatures. 

 Here is the link:  I am hoping to take advantage of this before time is up!  Right now I am recovering from a PE/DVT episode that came out of the blue.

http://www.dealchicken.com/nashville-tn/8502?source=em|nashville-tn|dailydeals&sub=ktstamm@att.net&et_cid=38359302&et_rid=ktstamm@att.net

Kindest Regards,

Katie Stamm

“The Stick Chic” www.stickchic.net


Meet Katrina

Hey Girls! Meet a new member of the Big Girl Cowgirl Club, Katrina!

Hi my name is Katrina and I am from Chetek, WI.  I am 37 years old and a mom of 3 kids. I’ve been on horses since the age of 6 months and I’ll be riding and driving til’ I cant any more. I own a shire/morgan cross “Guiness” and soon to own a percheron/tenn wlkr cross named “Rose”.

 

Don’t forget to say hi if y’all see her on Facebook!

xoxo

~Lizzy

 


Dubarry Galaway ExtraFit Boot!!!!!

ATTENTION LADIES!

If you are a fan of the luxurious Dubarry boot brand, but have never been able to own a pair because your calves and/or feet are just a little too big….then I have a treat for you!

Dubarry has made the “Galaway”, their most popular boot style to fit a larger calf and wider foot!!!!!!

 

The ExtraFit version of the iconic Galway boot allows about 2 inches extra width in the calf as well as more room across the instep to make entry to the boot easier!

The ultimate in all weather, all purpose outdoor footwear from
Dubarry. Raved about in Europe for years due to the unique marriage of function, durability and style that has been a hallmark of Dubarry since 1937. Used for a variety of outdoor pursuits from equestrian pursuits to dog walking or country lifestyle and from hunting to winter fashion.

Full Gore-Tex® lining provides complete waterproofing; insulation and breathability while the performance DryFast-DrySoft™ exterior leather offers protection, comfort, temperature control, durability and style. Dubarry’s own composite PU/Rubber sole is direct injection molded to the upper to ensure a proper seal for superior function. Durable, lightweight construction offers a comfort zone across a wide temperature range while the treated exterior allows you to rinse mud and muck from your boots with a hose!

 

 

Here is a review I found. This customer claims to have a 17″ calf and comfortably tuck her jeans into this boot!

“I bought these a couple months ago after having two pairs of similar boots (different brand) have waterproof and sole issues after a short amount of use. The Dubarry boots are definitely worth the extra money. They are holding up GREAT, definitely waterproof, and not too hot, but manage to keep my feet fairly warm in chilly weather, too! They are also gorgeous, and hold up well. I run a boarding and lesson barn and I have been doing everything from turnout, mucking, teaching and even ridden in them for a few minutes here and there when hopping on a students horse.
Oh and the extra-fit is awesome – I could never fit in the regular ones. I have a 17 inch calf and 9.5 size foot. I can wear these over jeans or breeches.”
 

Now available at SmartPak!

 

xoxo

~Lizzy


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